During a divorce, you should not sell or hide marital assets and limit your spending to your reasonable and necessary living expenses, business expenses and legal fees. This in not the time to make a big purchase. As for your children, you should not hide them from the other parent, disrupt their normal routine, withdraw them from school, or disparage the other parent to the kids. And a final word to the wise… do not smoke a joint or eat a gummy to reduce your stress. A failed drug test in court is a problem!